The other day I received the following e-mail from Susanne, a woman who found out her some years ago that her husband has same-sex attractions. I felt so moved by her words that I asked her permission to share them with you on the blog. I (recently) saw your Doin Time... and I was the one who asked about your wife during the discussion period that followed. I just read your thoughts on What About the Spouse ....and I can say, most women who find out their husbands are gay feel ALL of those things you wondered about....some in more degrees than others... When my husband was dragged out of the closet because of his irreverent, immoral, and amoral behavior that our, then, 14 and 16 year old sons had to find on our home computer, I went into the closet. I didn't know what to pray for.... Do I pray that this will go away? Do I pray that he could go back to the way things were in our family before we knew about him,? Do I pray that I could go back to the way things were? After all ,...
Musings of Peterson Toscano, an ex-gay survivor and creator of Doin' Time in the Homo No Mo Halfway House, Transfigurations: Transgressing Gender in the Bible, and Bubble and Squeak podcast.
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Peter,
Hey! There is already and RSS feed to my blog, what is Marvin surpassing me so much that he gets his own and I lose all my readers to him!?! Jeez! Sure be that way and leave me in the dust.
tee hee, I'm sure Marvin will be pleased to hear he is in demand.
There is talk about a Marvin podcast, but he is technologically stuck in the late 80's, so we will have to see.
Peterson
We must have met about this time last year then - it was about to be your birthday than we met - remember, and I found out you're in the same decade as my parents ;)
CA