The other day I received the following e-mail from Susanne, a woman who found out her some years ago that her husband has same-sex attractions. I felt so moved by her words that I asked her permission to share them with you on the blog. I (recently) saw your Doin Time... and I was the one who asked about your wife during the discussion period that followed. I just read your thoughts on What About the Spouse ....and I can say, most women who find out their husbands are gay feel ALL of those things you wondered about....some in more degrees than others... When my husband was dragged out of the closet because of his irreverent, immoral, and amoral behavior that our, then, 14 and 16 year old sons had to find on our home computer, I went into the closet. I didn't know what to pray for.... Do I pray that this will go away? Do I pray that he could go back to the way things were in our family before we knew about him,? Do I pray that I could go back to the way things were? After all ,...
Musings of Peterson Toscano, an ex-gay survivor and creator of Doin' Time in the Homo No Mo Halfway House, Transfigurations: Transgressing Gender in the Bible, and Bubble and Squeak podcast.
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But wait! I can't resist providng a suggestion because I just noticed that my word verification is "luvcry". Maybe that wouldn't work for you new ministry, but it's god to be good for something!
Kurt, Yeah, I kinda liked God's Garden too.
KJ, yeah, nothing fruity will do, and I think that is the problem that Marvin's ministers had with it. So Straight Way it is. Sounds like some weird supermarket where one buys heterosexually oriented goods.
Of course, in the correct context, I would never spell "God" with a lower case 'g'. I am fairly certain that God was in the selection of my word verification for that post which currently reads "ooxnojjs" which is really not good for much.
Hey Marvin! I've finally had a chance to catch up with your audioblogs, it sounds like you're diving headlong into another adventure. I hope you will be able to gain understanding and respect from the other people in the church. Make sure you do explain that despite the name, you con't make people straight. :(