The other day I received the following e-mail from Susanne, a woman who found out her some years ago that her husband has same-sex attractions. I felt so moved by her words that I asked her permission to share them with you on the blog. I (recently) saw your Doin Time... and I was the one who asked about your wife during the discussion period that followed. I just read your thoughts on What About the Spouse ....and I can say, most women who find out their husbands are gay feel ALL of those things you wondered about....some in more degrees than others... When my husband was dragged out of the closet because of his irreverent, immoral, and amoral behavior that our, then, 14 and 16 year old sons had to find on our home computer, I went into the closet. I didn't know what to pray for.... Do I pray that this will go away? Do I pray that he could go back to the way things were in our family before we knew about him,? Do I pray that I could go back to the way things were? After all ,...
Musings of Peterson Toscano, an ex-gay survivor and creator of Doin' Time in the Homo No Mo Halfway House, Transfigurations: Transgressing Gender in the Bible, and Bubble and Squeak podcast.
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-Jon in Iowa City
How about "Living GrAYce"
I'm enjoying your broadcasts. :)
I think we need your ministry over here in the UK too . We've got all these guys coming over here telling us its 'ok' to be gay - as if we didnt have enough liberal pinko's in our own clergy ! I so hear what you say about the watering down of the Word too - after all an abomination is an abomination : you know ? as in abominable snowmen and all that . ..am I right or am I right ?
Well I liked the garden idea - you know I have a big garden and I was only thinking as I weeded and pruned for the winter yesterday thats it was so like God's work in our lives - getting rid of all that unwanted growth so we can bear fruit and be healthy
But I like the straight way idea as well - especially as it is so scriptual.Your Pastor must really know his bible .After all God said the crooked will be made straight and that he wanted a straight highway thru the desert an'all . I dont see why gay people cant see how this means so clearly that you have to at least act straight if you wanna follow in God's way ?? Like DUH ??!!!
Trevor,
I believe Marvin has found a real ally in you. Good, I fear that many of us just see things so differently then he does. But bless his heart he seeks to be honest and pure.
Perhaps "The Crooked Made Straight" would be an even better name than Straight Way. Hmmm.