Skip to main content

Connection of Outsiders

Thursday night I hung out with filmmaker, Rory Kennedy, Nicholas Kristof, NY Times columnist and Pulitzer Prize winner for his writing about Darfur, actor and global activist, Tim Robbins, and the first inspector general off the Department of Homeland Security, Clark Kent Earvin.

They spoke in Hartford on the Connecticut Forum's panel discussion, Saving the World. I wrote about the CT Forum before. We bring into town various people for on-stage discussions about things that matter--social justice issues, security, culture wars, comedy, literature, etc. As a member of the advisory board, the Forum often asks me to serve as a valet for guests. On Thursday they gave me Tim Robbins to look after.

The best part is that I get to hang out with these fascinating folks for five hours as we walk them through the press conference, cocktail party, dinner, and the main event. In the limo and while we are waiting, we talk. On Thursday the behind the scenes conversations ranged from form President Jimmy Carter's legacy (eradicating River Eye Blindness) to the death of Anna Nicole Simpson (Tim Robbins worked with her on a film and confirmed that she really liked chocolate.)

Of all the people I met on Thursday, I enjoyed my conversation with Clark Ervin the most. A passionate Republican, he served in both President Bush's administrations. A long time friend of George W. Bush, he headed the then newly formed Department of Homeland Security shortly after 911. He has since moved to the Aspen Institute and has become a vocal critic of homeland security.

A fellow Quaker asked me to ask Ervin why he is still a Republican. He explained that he believes in the traditional tenets of the Party--low taxes, a small central government and a robust foreign policy that will use military force when necessary but also relies on political and diplomatic methods. As a Republican, he wants to work within the party to voice the beliefs of the silent majority. He states that the two party political system encourages the extreme voices while the majority of people in both parties, who share many values with each other, get silenced.

I said that it sounds like he is somewhat of an outsider among his own people and how that must feel difficult at times. I shared that as a gay Christian, I feel I do something similar in trying to reclaim the name Christian from a movement that has taken it for un-Christian purposes and goals. Much of the church has lost sight of the original spirit in the life and message of Jesus. He told me how he cannot see how someone can use the words of Jesus and the Bible to oppose gays. This is not what Jesus was about.

We have since corresponded via e-mail, and I hope to continue a dialog about war, security, but particularly the role of the outsider who still choses to remain inside the system with the hope of rescuing the movement.

Comments

Annis said…
You get to meet so many cool people and I am sure that everyone of them think exactly that "I get to meet so cool people". I know I did.
Anonymous said…
"...but particularly the role of the outsider who still choses to remain inside the system with the hope of rescuing the movement."

I got it, Peterson. =)

I get asked this question a lot. "Why stay in a church/denomination that marginalizes you to the point of demonization?"
Nonsequitur said…
alyssia, I do know where you are coming from on that... it is not an easy position to be in and not everyone has the temperament or tools to deal with it. Anyone who chooses to stand their ground in a hostile environment as a living example of truth has my utmost respect, even if I and many others choose not to position ourselves in the same fashion.
Craig Hickman said…
What nonsequitur said.

Popular posts from this blog

My Gay Husband--A Spouse Speaks Out

The other day I received the following e-mail from Susanne, a woman who found out her some years ago that her husband has same-sex attractions. I felt so moved by her words that I asked her permission to share them with you on the blog. I (recently) saw your Doin Time... and I was the one who asked about your wife during the discussion period that followed. I just read your thoughts on What About the Spouse ....and I can say, most women who find out their husbands are gay feel ALL of those things you wondered about....some in more degrees than others... When my husband was dragged out of the closet because of his irreverent, immoral, and amoral behavior that our, then, 14 and 16 year old sons had to find on our home computer, I went into the closet. I didn't know what to pray for.... Do I pray that this will go away? Do I pray that he could go back to the way things were in our family before we knew about him,? Do I pray that I could go back to the way things were? After all ,...

The False Image of LIA

John Smid and me-Graduation 1998 (above) & John Smid today (left) By now many have heard that Tennessee's Department of Mental Health & Developmental Disabilities determined that the "ex-gay" program, Love in Action, is operating two “unlicensed mental health supportive living facilities”. LIA has until Friday, September 23 to respond. If LIA statements in Eartha Jane Melzer's article are indicative to how the "change" program might respond, we may see LIA change right before our eyes from a clinical mental health compound into a house of praise and worship. Gerard Wellman, business administrator for Love in Action, and a former Love in Action client, said Sept. 13 that the organization has been in contact with the state but would not comment further. “As a church, we operate under a different set of rules,” Wellman said. Curious, and what rules might these be? What is even more curious is that according to LIA's site only one staff member ...

Puzzled

Last night I performed Transfigurations-Transgressing Gender in the Bible at Imago Dei Metropolitan Community Church in Glen Mills, PA (about 15 miles outside of Philly). I had a diverse audience of about 45 people -- college students, Quakers, straight, bi, trans and lesbian, young and old. I took my time with the piece maintaining a gentle meditative pace. For the ending when I reveal the identity of the narrator, I had instructed the light tech to dim the lights. Then as the closing music swelled, I asked her to raise the lights to their brigthest intensity. With the music playing, I exited. Always (up until last night) at this point the audience applauds, I wait 5 seconds then come out to take a bow. Last night I exited and then nothing. No one clapped. They sat quietly as the music played. I stood back stage puzzled, baffled. Now what do I do? Wait? Go out anyway? And I wondered for a moment, Did they hate it? Did I confuse them? Offend them? Bore them into a coma? After what ...