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Wow! The Equality Riders impress me more and more. Such vision, passion and great listening skills. You can see me in my new Soul Force Q t-shirt signed by the 50 of the 52 riders (two were stuck somewhere because of weather but will be here in time). Some GREAT bloggers too including Matt and Brandy who is taking video throughout the rides.

Today I led a workshop on the ex-gay movement. I enjoyed most the Chalk Talk activity where in silence the riders got to write up their thoughts, questions, assumptions, understandings of the ex-gay movement and the sort of questions and arguments they will hear when they visit the schools over the next two months. The activity helped them to slow down, take time to organize their thoughts and helped them to be sensitive to the people around them, making room, trying not to take up too much space.

Some of them have ex-gay experiences themselves having attended programs, support groups and counseling. One man received phone counseling from a NARTH therapist for two years and said that it was very religious-based. NARTH claims to be a secular program. Several Mormons and former Mormons who attended Evergreen.

They expect that some of the schools will respond to their upcoming visit by having an ex-gay visit the campus and tell their story. The Chalk Talk revealed the many issues surrounding the ex-gay movement and the complexity of it all. Change is/is not possible does not come anywhere close to covering the topic.

Some of this year's riders were actually students at some of the schools visited last year. Having the riders come to the campus spoke to them deeply and helped them in the process to accept themselves and come out publicly. You can read some of their life stories and contribute to cause here.

Comments

Annis said…
Looks like you had a good time. Imagine spending an entire weekend with you and your wonderful stories. Way cool.
Elliot Coale said…
Those students sound amazing, Peterson. It sounds like they were very touched and educated well by having you there. And you appear to have been affected by them, too. That's good.
Anonymous said…
What an amazing experience!

-- Tom D.
Thanks so much for your time with the riders, Peterson. I'm corresponding with a couple of them, hoping to help out at one of their stops nearby. Their courage inspires me! I know they were inspired by you. =)
Carol said…
I was so glad to read you were doing this training for the Soulforce riders. I have been a supporter of this ride and think it is so important to support the younger generation in self-acceptance and growth in authenticity.
Alex Resare said…
Such a great initiative! Glad to get to know about it.
Brian said…
We appreciated hearing your stories and receiving your input. Hopefully our paths will cross again soon!

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