The other day I received the following e-mail from Susanne, a woman who found out her some years ago that her husband has same-sex attractions. I felt so moved by her words that I asked her permission to share them with you on the blog. I (recently) saw your Doin Time... and I was the one who asked about your wife during the discussion period that followed. I just read your thoughts on What About the Spouse ....and I can say, most women who find out their husbands are gay feel ALL of those things you wondered about....some in more degrees than others... When my husband was dragged out of the closet because of his irreverent, immoral, and amoral behavior that our, then, 14 and 16 year old sons had to find on our home computer, I went into the closet. I didn't know what to pray for.... Do I pray that this will go away? Do I pray that he could go back to the way things were in our family before we knew about him,? Do I pray that I could go back to the way things were? After all ,...
Musings of Peterson Toscano, an ex-gay survivor and creator of Doin' Time in the Homo No Mo Halfway House, Transfigurations: Transgressing Gender in the Bible, and Bubble and Squeak podcast.
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Thank you for the great laugh today! Someday we'll chat about my "wife"!
Jon...how the heck do you do it? Would love to chat.
j.
I love the idea with the fruit trees. I will save it in my hart until we get a garden of our own.
I have three children, 5, 4 and almost 2 yrs old. I am a gay transman and gave birth to them before my change. So both me and my partner are the biological parents.
God bless you Marvin!
alex in sweden
I haven't announced it yet on my site, but I will be in Sweden in September. I'll be in Malmö for their gay festival doing some shows and workshops. Don't know if it is close to where you live, but would love to meet you and your family.
I will be sure that Marvin hears all about your family. He is getting an education he didn't count on.
Peterson
I didn't get the chance to post before the shout-out audio blog came on, but I do want to tell you that I'm from Connecticut! Which diminishes the international flavor of things, but, what the heck.
I also join the other parents on this board... I have 4! Ages 16, 13 (boys), 11 and 7 (girls). All of whom think Marvin is baffling but funny.
Jane in CT
-Jon in Iowa City
I'm going through your posts now though, so I'm catching up.
And, yay, lots of parents. I'm not a parent. Unless you count my boyfriend. ^_^