John Smid and me-Graduation 1998 (above) & John Smid today (left) By now many have heard that Tennessee's Department of Mental Health & Developmental Disabilities determined that the "ex-gay" program, Love in Action, is operating two “unlicensed mental health supportive living facilities”. LIA has until Friday, September 23 to respond. If LIA statements in Eartha Jane Melzer's article are indicative to how the "change" program might respond, we may see LIA change right before our eyes from a clinical mental health compound into a house of praise and worship. Gerard Wellman, business administrator for Love in Action, and a former Love in Action client, said Sept. 13 that the organization has been in contact with the state but would not comment further. “As a church, we operate under a different set of rules,” Wellman said. Curious, and what rules might these be? What is even more curious is that according to LIA's site only one staff member ...
Musings of Peterson Toscano, an ex-gay survivor and creator of Doin' Time in the Homo No Mo Halfway House, Transfigurations: Transgressing Gender in the Bible, and Bubble and Squeak podcast.

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Marvin, you know, this post brought back so many bad memories for me of church experiences. Why are churches such toxic places much of the time?
I feel very badly for Soon, and for you as well.
I really hope that you (or your pastor?) will be able to do something about this bully on a power trip...
Sounds to me like someone had sex on the brain (no, not you and Soon). I rather wonder if he wasn't disappointed to find you praying...it's much harder to pleasure one's self to an image of people praying than...well, you know. Maybe you guys should start praying for Brother what's-his-name to get "victory" over his thought life. =)
j.